There
will always be new opportunities to apply the principles of letting go of the
past and pressing on for God's prize that we have discussed in this book.
Someone who matters to you will inevitably do something to hurt you. When that
happens, you will have to choose again to receive God's love, forgive the one
who hurt you, pray for him, bless him, believe that God will turn the situation
around for your good, and then wait for the prize of His reward.
To encourage your faith to press on to the higher prize of freedom from
emotional pain, God has included many stories of victory in the Bible to remind
you of people who learned to shake off offenses and remain faithful to the
Lord. In fact, the Bible is full of stories of those who received double
blessings for being faithful.
Joseph went from the pit to the palace. Daniel went from the lions' den
to a place of promotion.
Ruth started out eating scraps in a field, because she was faithful to a
mother-in-law who was going to be alone without her. Their husbands were dead,
and Ruth could have gone back to the security of her own people. Her
mother-in-law told her, "Just go back." But she said, "No, I'm
staying with you, and your people shall be my people, and your God shall be my
God" (see Ruth 1:16). Then God gave her favor, and Ruth ended up
marrying Boaz, who just happened to be the richest man in the country. Esther
started out as a frightened young maiden, who was not really happy about the
position she was offered. But she was obedient to what God was leading her to
do, and she went from being an orphan to a queen who saved a whole nation of
people.
And then, of course, there is the
story of Job.
The amazing thing about Job is that God allowed him to go through the
painful experiences he suffered because God knew he would make it through them
successfully. He knew Job was a man He could trust. If you have never read the
entire book of Job, I encourage you to do so.
The devil
thought that Job was faithful to God only because God protected him. So God
said to Satan, "Okay then, we will remove some of that protection, and you
will find that he will still stay faithful to me" (see Job 1:12). So God
allowed Satan to attack and destroy every good thing that Job possessed. He
took everything away from him except his life, but Job still would not deny his
allegiance to the Lord.
As a
result of Job's faithfulness, "the Lord turned the captivity of Job and
restored his fortunes, when he prayed for his friends; also the Lord gave Job
twice as much as he had before" (Job 42:10). It is important to note that
the Lord turned Job's captivity and restored
his fortunes when he prayed for his friends. These were the same
"friends" who had severely disappointed him, who had not been there
for him, and who had judged and criticized him. But the Lord gave Job twice as
much as he had before, because he was faithful to continue doing the right
thing even though it was painful.
The Lord
gave Job twice as much as he had before all the trouble started. God gave him a
double blessing for all the trouble he had been through. Verses 12 and 13 of
Job 42 say: "And the Lord blessed the latter days of Job more than his
beginning; for he had 14,000 sheep, 6,000 camels, 1,000 yoke of oxen, and 1,000
female donkeys. He had also seven sons and three daughters."Now, you may
not want sheep or camels, oxen or donkeys, or even more kids, but God knows
what kind of double blessing to give to you for your faithfulness. But in order
to keep pressing on and reap your double blessing, you will have to learn to
shake off the troubles that come your way.
One of my
favorite stories is about a farmer's donkey that fell into a dry well. The
animal cried pitifully for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do
for his poor donkey. Finally, he concluded that the well was too deep, and it
really needed to be covered up anyway; besides, the donkey was old, and it
would be a lot of trouble to get him out of the pit. The farmer decided that it
was not worth trying to retrieve the animal, so he asked his neighbors to help
him fill in the well and bury the donkey.
They all grabbed shovels and began to toss dirt into the well. The
donkey immediately realized what was happening, and he began to weep horribly.
Crying would be our normal response if somebody was mistreating us this badly,
so this donkey was responding the same way we would at first, but then he got
real quiet. A few shovel loads of dirt later, the farmer looked down the well
and was astonished at what he saw. With every shovel of dirt that hit the
donkey's back, the donkey would shake it off, and step on top of it.
As the neighbors and the farmer continued to shovel dirt on top of the
animal, he would continue to shake it off, and take a step up. Pretty soon the
donkey shook off the last shovel full of dirt, took a step up, and walked right
out of the well.
We can
learn so much from this story. When trouble comes, if we will quit moaning long
enough to get still and listen, God will tell us what to do about our trouble.
By the grace and the mercy of God, I was able to shake off a lot of things in
my life, a lot of hurt feelings, a lot of mistreatment, a lot of abuse, a lot
of unfair, unjust, unkind things. But I thank God that I finally learned, in
the midst of shaking them off, to also believe for my reward.
The expectation of God's reward gives you hope that God is not going to
leave you defenseless, that He is going to do something for you. The next time
people
you know get angry about something, just say to them, "Shake it
off." When you meet someone who is depressed, say, "Shake it
off." If people you know are moping around because somebody has hurt their
feelings, say, "Shake it off." I give you permission to preach this
message to everyone who needs to hear it.
Trouble Will Come
You may think that you will be completely protected from encounters with
trouble because you are serving God, but that is not true. As a matter of fact,
if God sends you out to minister to others, you are almost sure to have
trouble. But, like the three Hebrew children who were cast into the fiery
furnace, you can expect to come through the fires of testing without even
smelling like smoke just as Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did (see Daniel
3:23-27).
Jesus gave His disciples authority over the unclean
spirits that would try to bring trouble to them. He also told His disciples
what to do if the people they were trying to reach rejected them:
And He called to Him the Twelve [apostles] and began to send them out
[as His ambassadors] two by two and gave them authority and power over the
unclean spirits. He charged them to take nothing for their journey except a
walking stick-no bread, no wallet for a collection bag, no money in their belts
(girdles, purses)- But to go with sandals on their feet and not to put
on two tunics (undergarments).
And He told them, Wherever you go into a house, stay there until you
leave that place.
And if any community will not receive and accept
and welcome you, and they refuse to listen to you, when you depart, shake off
the dust that is on your feet, for a testimony against them. Truly I tell you,
it will be more tolerable for Sodom and Gomorrah in the judgment day than for
that town.(Mark 6:7-10)
Jesus was showing all of us that He will provide everything needed to
serve Him. The disciples did not need extra clothes or money. They were given
authority over the trouble that would come against them, and if anyone rejected
them, they were to simply "shake it off." So they went out and
preached everywhere the message of repentance and salvation.
If you
are going to be used by God, or if you are going to walk with God, you will
experience a certain amount of rejection. And more than likely that rejection
will come from the people who matter the most to you. It may come from family
members or close friends.
If God touches you, and you want to go deeper with Him than some of your
church friends, even they are likely to reject you. People just do not want
others to
go where they are not willing to go themselves. If they want to pursue
carnal interests, and you want to walk in the Spirit, they may openly hate you
for your choice.
Jesus said of the people of His day who resisted and opposed Him,
"They hated Me without a cause" (John 15:25). It really struck me one
day how sad that was. Jesus tried to be good to people, but instead of loving
and appreciating Him for it, they hated Him. Joseph had a dream, and his
brothers hated him for it (see Genesis 37:5). Stephen was full of grace and
power and worked great wonders and miracles among the people, but religious
leaders hated him for his intelligence and wisdom and the inspiration of the
Spirit by Whom he spoke, so they had him arrested and eventually stoned (see
Acts 6:8-12; 7:58).
It is amazing how easy it is to draw hatred, jealousy, and envy from
others. If you try to be good, somebody will hate you for it. But if you
respond to them with the same anger they display toward you, you are keeping
yourself from being blessed. Do not let people pull you down to their
level-shake it off and step up.
It is hard to shake off rejection. It hurts. But it
hurts even more to live by feelings. Learn to shake off the dust of rejection
and disappointment.
One time I was trying to help someone, and I really felt that I was
doing the right thing. I am always very
busy, and I never have to look for something to do, so I felt that I was
really making a sacrifice of time and effort by trying to help this person. But
no matter what I did, this individual felt that it was never enough, and so I
was getting upset about it.
I felt that God wanted me to help this person because it was my Christian
duty. But it seemed that despite all my best efforts, nothing I did was
successful or even understood or appreciated. I finally got a breakthrough when
I realized that my responsibility was to try to help that person, but that I
was not responsible for that individual's joy.
A lot of times, we want everybody to be happy with everything we are
doing. But we have to get over thinking that everybody is going to be happy
with everything we do. We have to do what we believe is right, what we believe
God is leading us to do, but we have to realize that everybody is responsible
for his or her own joy. Jesus told His disciples to go preach. They did what
they were supposed to do. But He told them that if people did not receive them
or their message, they were not to let the indifference of others become a
stumbling block to their own call.
Do not give up your ministry, or sit and cry pitifully for hours, just
because everybody does not receive you, or appreciate you. Shake it off and
press on to the next town, to the next person who needs to hear your testimony
of what God has done in your life.
If rejection stops you cold in
your tracks, then the spirit of rejection wins. You cannot stop doing what is
right just because somebody does not like what you are doing.
As a matter of fact, I would venture to say that almost every time God
is ready to promote you and bring you to the next level, you will experience an
attack of rejection at the place where you are now. Satan will use rejection to
try to keep you where you are or even to bring you down from there.
That is
why so many people are rejected by their own family members when they get
filled with the Holy Spirit. They go home all excited to tell everyone that
they are living their lives for the Lord, only to discover that they are
suddenly the "strange one" in the family. Satan uses the people who
matter most to them to reject them and try to cause them to turn back to their
old ways.
Step Up A Level
Like the donkey in the well, you need to shake off each shovel full of
abuse and rejection and use it to keep stepping up a level until you are free
to enjoy the life God has planned for you. You have already come into a new
level with God. Your faith is already stronger today than it was yesterday. You
are more prepared for the next time abuse is flung at you. From this day
forward, you will walk into a more powerful level with God because you have
determined to be faithful to Him,
no matter what. You are more dangerous to the enemy when you receive the power
of the indwelling Holy Ghost.
Because you believe on Jesus and receive His Holy Spirit, you can pray
and receive God's best in your life. You are free to press on toward the reward
of God, and your testimony will do great damage to the devil's work. As a
result, he is going to influence as many people as possible to become angry
about it and to criticize and oppose you.
But remember the donkey: humble yourself and shake it off. Use what the
enemy plans against you to move one step closer to the place God wants you to
be.
For example, Dave and I were asked to leave our home church when God
started moving in our life, but then God led us to another church where the
pastor accepted us, and covered us with prayer and blessing.
The Bible
says that we are not at war against flesh and blood, but against principalities
and powers and wickedness in high places (see Ephesians 6:12). Satan will
continue to try to use people to keep us from going forward. If possible, he
will use people whom we know and love so that the wounds from their rejection
and disapproval will be deep and painful.
Sometimes we fear the disapproval
of people so
much that we will not step up to the next level with God because we
already know that somebody is not going to like it. It is amazing how many
times we bow down to people when we should be bowing down to God.
Jesus
said, "He who hear sand heeds you [disciples] hears and heeds Me; and he
who slights and rejects you slights and rejects Me; and he who slights and
rejects Me slight sand rejects Him who sent Me" (Luke 10:16). He was
telling us not to take rejection personally. If people are rejecting us when we
are following the Lord, then they are rejecting Jesus and the Father. Now,
understand that before you even gave your heart to the Lord, the devil
recognized God's plan for you and did everything he could to keep you from
receiving it. It is possible that the bigger the call on your life, the greater
the abuse that comes against you. If you consider warfare in the spiritual
world in the light of God's Word, you will understand that Satan sent all the
trouble that has come upon you because he knew that God was pursuing you to
bless you.
But Jehovah is the Lord of hosts-the Lord of the armies. He is fighting
for you, and that makes you more than a conqueror. The battle over you has
already been won, and you are promised a double blessing for your former
trouble.
Stay Full Of The Joy Of The Lord
The apostle Paul said, "Now am I trying to win the favor of men, or
of God? Do I seek to please men? If I were still seeking popularity with men, I
should not be a bond servant of Christ (the Messiah)" (Galatians 1:10).
We can see from this next passage of Scripture that
Paul learned to shake off rejection and continue in joy:
And so the Word of the Lord [concerning eternal salvation through
Christ] scattered and spread throughout the whole region.
But the Jews stirred up the devout women of high rank and the
outstanding men of the town, and instigated persecution against Paul and
Barnabas and drove them out of their boundaries. But [the apostles] shook off
the dust from their feet against them and went to Iconium.
And the disciples were continually filled [throughout their souls] with
joy and the Holy Spirit. (Acts 13:49-52)
Stay continually filled with joy and the Holy Spirit throughout your
soul; keep your mind, will, and emotions fixed on the joy that is available
through the indwelling presence of the Lord. You will lose your joy if you get
concerned about what everybody thinks about you. Shake off your
self-consciousness and "be filled and stimulated with the [Holy]
Spirit"
(Ephesians 5:18). Remain full of
joy no matter what trouble comes against you. Do your best to do what you
believe God wants you to do in every situation.
If people
do not have enough love to show you a little mercy just because you do not do
everything the way they want you to, then that is between them and God. Do not
live your life to be popular; live it to do God's will.
To obey
God, Joseph had to shake off many hurts and disappointments such as the
betrayal of his brothers, the lies of Potipher's wife, and the forgotten
promise of the butler he had helped. But the result of pressing on was that
Joseph was put in charge everywhere he went. God gave him a double recompense
for his troubles, and he was greatly blessed (see Genesis 37-Exodus 1).
Likewise,
people did not like Daniel because he was a godly man who kept shaking off
rejection. He was so disliked that he was thrown into a den of hungry lions,
but God shut the mouths of the lions. When the king saw what God had done for
Daniel, he proclaimed: "I make a decree that in all my royal dominion men
must tremble and fear before the God of Daniel, for He is the living God,
enduring and steadfast forever, and His kingdom shall not be destroyed and His
dominion shall be even to the end [of the world]" (Daniel 6:26) .Daniel's
steadfast walk with God inspired an entire nation to believe that God "is
a Savior and Deliverer, and He works signs
and wonders in the heavens and on
the earth-He Who has delivered Daniel from the power of the lions" (Daniel
6:27).
In Paul's letter to the Thessalonians, beginning in 2 Thessalonians 1:3,
he gave thanks because believers were growing in faith, their love for each
other was increasing, and they were steadfast in the midst of persecutions and
crushing distresses.
In verse 6, Paul reassured believers that God would repay with distress
and affliction those who distressed and afflicted them. Then he wrote of God's
determination to reward them:
And to [recompense] you who are so distressed and afflicted [by granting
you] relief and rest along with us [your fellow sufferers] when the Lord Jesus
is revealed from heaven with His mighty angels in a flame of fire,
To deal
out retribution (chastisement and vengeance) upon those who do not know or
perceive or become acquainted with God, and [upon those] who ignore and refuse
to obey the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ"(2 Thessalonians 1:7-8).
So if you are persecuted for doing what is right in the eyes of God,
rejoice. The apostle Peter said, "[After all] what kind of glory [is there
in it] if, when you do wrong and are punished for it, you take it patiently?
But if you bear patiently with suffering [which
results] when you do right and that is undeserved, it is acceptable and
pleasing to God" (1 Peter 2:20).
When you suffer for doing right, Jesus calls you blessed, saying:
"Blessed and happy and enviably fortunate and spiritually prosperous (in
the state in which the born-again child of God enjoys and finds satisfaction in
God's favor and salvation, regardless of his outward conditions) are those who
are persecuted for righteousness' sake (for being and doing right), for theirs
is the kingdom of heaven!" (Matthew 5:10)Peter had to shake off failure,
Paul had to shake off rejection, and you are going to have to shake off both
failure and rejection if you want to be used by God. But a double reward is in
store for you.
Shake off
unforgiveness, resentment, trouble, and self-pity. Shake off rejection,
offense, betrayal, gossip, judgment, and the kiss of Judas. Shake off arguments
with relatives, close friends, and strangers. Shake off your own failures and
mistakes. Shake off disappointment over your own imperfection.
Just get over it, and go on.
The season for mourning is over.
It is time to rejoice.

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