YOU ARE CHOOSING IN SUCH A TIME LIKE THIS. some women will say what is my own concern,i will be a wife of somebody so it not my concern but I will say that the issue on ground now is everyone business and it even concern you most. You are born for a purpose and the purpose must be met, you are not just born to just be a wife just like that, the notable women you see in your Holy book are also woman like you and they fulfill their purpose. Ester as a woman change the course of her nation and deliver them from the hand of their enemy• Deborah also did Wonder's during her time and lead the people to battle and they overcome their enemy• There is a chapter in the Holy book of the Christian where they talk about a woman of virtues and what she as done, also in the Holy book of the Muslim a chapter was use to write about Mariam and what she did, even in the Yoruba culture they talk about a woman who delivered their land from the hand of their enemy moreni• and so on, You are a woman just like them and you can do better than them, woman you are not irrelevant, you are not useless, you important, it is high time you act out that importance, it is high you see yourself as something rather than seeing yourself as nothing. You are a woman and you are a tools needed to build a better home and world.. You are a tools needed to bring about positive turn around in the land.. You are a change agent.. You are to be at your duty post as an helper not as a slave.. Lay down a legacy now that will make you relevant in your generation and beyond.. YOU ARE BORN IN SUCH A TIME LIKE THIS..